what's one weakness I'm done tolerating?
I want to stop letting my fear of other people's perceived opinions influence how I live
- what made me weird as a kid?
- drumming on everything
- preferring to be alone
- reading all the time
- what makes me flow?
- fussing with CSS
- editing videos
- working with music
- writing
- playing
- creating in GB
- what do people thank me for?
- what things do you think I'm good at?
- (Sue) Socratic method and intuition. Good active listener
- what's my sentence?
- how could my life be described?
- how do I WANT my life to be described?
- Joel is the kindest most thoughtful person I know because he's a good listener and always has something comforting or practical to say
- where can I make my biggest contribution?
- what do the people around me need?
- we find our purpose by serving others
- what would I do if I didn't have to make money?
- Write and record music
- play with web technology
- write (at least the Jake Calcutta stories)
- what will I regret when I'm 90?
- most regrets are about inaction, not actions
- biggest regret in surveys: not being bold enough
- I didn't do enough for Sue
- I didn't spend more time with Fiona doing things she loves
- I didn't find a way to travel again
- what will I be proudest of when I'm 90?
- Being a good husband
- good father to Fiona
- a good friend to the people who love me
- my music
it is not true that discipline is the answer to everything. checking every box doesn't matter. I'm still feeling empty
my routine isn't aligned with who I want to be, it's just a long list of things I feel like I'm SUPPOSED to do
what kind of person do I actually want me to be?
not others' expectations
not fitting into the world
stop optimizing myself and check that what I'm doing is making me be more me